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Embrace Your Power: A Manifesto for Turning Wishes into Reality

  • Writer: Kathleen Nower
    Kathleen Nower
  • Apr 11, 2024
  • 3 min read

Updated: Sep 11

For Your Future Self

I woke up this morning, nestled in my bed with my journal, and found myself musing:

“I wish I could…”

And just like that, a cascade of potential realities poured into my mind. Pages filled with ideas, visions, desires.

At first, the inspiration felt overwhelming. My brain leapt straight into panic: “Oh my god, HOW will I achieve all of this? Is creating this life I’m dreaming of even possible for me?”

That flood of doubt felt paralyzing.

But then I snapped back into my truth.

Wishing vs. Doing

Whenever you encounter a dream, wish, or goal that feels too monumental, too far away, too scary — I want you to remember this:

You can achieve it.

Not because it will be easy, but because you are capable. Because the power is already within you.

The difference lies in what you choose to do next.

Instead of merely wishing…

  • “I wish I was…” → GO BE IT.

  • “I wish I could…” → GO DO IT.

  • “I wish I had…” → GO GET IT.

Your words are powerful, but your actions are where transformation happens.

The Hardest Part (a.k.a. Act 2)

Here’s the thing no one tells us: the hardest part of achieving any dream isn’t taking the first step or crossing the finish line.

It’s the middle.

What Brené Brown calls Act 2.

We often imagine success as a movie montage:Step 1: Have a great idea.Step 2: Take the first step.Step 3: Cue the upbeat music while we magically fast-forward to success.Step 4: Live happily ever after.

But real life doesn’t skip Act 2.

And Act 2 can feel endless.It’s the part filled with setbacks, discouragement, doubt, and days where nothing seems to move forward. It’s where you question yourself and where the temptation to quit feels loudest.

But here’s the truth: Act 2 isn’t proof that you’re failing. It’s proof that you’re growing.

Who Are You Doing This For?

When Act 2 feels unbearable, I remind myself: I’m not doing this for the present me.

I’m doing this for my future me.

The me who wakes up every morning proud that I didn’t give up. The me who is living the life I once only journaled about. The me who knows, deep down, that every small step was worth it.

That future version of me will never exist if I quit in the middle.

So today, I choose to show up for her.

Daily Choices, Big Results

I choose to be the best version of myself today so that my future self can thrive.I choose to believe that hard work pays off.I choose consistency, even when it feels boring.I choose courage, even when fear whispers otherwise.

Because no one else will build my dream life for me. That responsibility — and that power — rests in my hands.

We are accountable for how we think, how we speak to ourselves, and how we turn thoughts into actions. That is where transformation begins.

A Reminder for You

So if you’re out there right now, putting in the effort, pushing through fear, navigating the messy middle — I see you.

Remember this:✨ You are bigger than your fears.✨ You are stronger than your doubts.✨ You are capable of more than you imagine.

Your future self is depending on you. And she is worth it.

So take the next step.Show up today.And watch yourself become everything you once only dreamed of.

Yes, you can



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